These days there is plenty of talk about what it means to manifest a dream life and how to do it. For some, the idea holds mystery and perhaps a sense of magic, or it holds a spiritual connotation, leading you to believe it to be outside your sphere of interest or ability. Regardless of your spiritual views, the truth is that we each possess incredible power when it comes to our lives.
Sometimes when we are in the middle of manifesting more, or striving for our dreams, we lose sight of why we started in the first place. Just as it is always useful to remind of ourselves of the blessings we already enjoy, re-establishing the purpose behind our efforts gives us power. It also helps us connect to ourselves in the present, adjusting for any changes that may have taken place during our personal journey.
As a synergy specialist, I meet many distinct types of people from various backgrounds and cultures. Amongst them, there are certainly those with huge career aspirations and other extraordinary goals; however, the common denominator between all the people I meet is the desire to wake up feeling good about their lives and even better about themselves. It means that despite the car repairs you are stressed by, or the vacation you are excited about, within the extremes of what is most disconcerting and most exhilarating, there is a state of peacefulness that is constant and accessible.
The peace comes from constructing a life that supports your most organic, innate desire to feel fulfilled emotionally, mentally and physically. There will always be hills and valleys, easy relaxing times and difficult challenging times; those of you who pay attention and attend to what's happening in between the highs and lows on a regular basis, will have the best environment to support you during the lows, and maximize your highs.
Make no mistake about it--if you can wake up every day feeling good about who you are and the life you are living, regardless of what trimmings you may or may not have, you'll appreciate the awesomeness of your life. The simplicity of wanting to feel good inside, mirrors what it takes to possess that feeling of satisfaction and so much more. In other words, the process of manifesting what you want is actually quite simple. Make sure you remind yourself why you are creating the aspects you desire.
The most important piece of the puzzle is recognizing that you are at the center of it all. As soon as you choose something different, you'll likely manifest something different. There are many opportunities to further explore the aspects of manifestation, however the process in itself is fairly simple--and for some, keeping it simple can even facilitate your ability to harness your own power to create what you envision and desire. For some of you, the process in its entirety or in part is instinctive; for others, you must learn it or identify where the gaps in your process lie so you can get the most out of your efforts.
Whether you believe in a magical force, or desire to strip it down to the most basic nuts and bolts, it's simple to manifest the life experience you want. The hard part is releasing or rejecting the aspects that show up first, before those you're truly striving for can reach you. There is no right way; there is only the way that best helps you find that state of peace in addition to making what you envision your reality.
No matter what you already have or what you want, if the overall life you set up for you doesn't support a basic sense of feeling good, you're cheating yourself. Having a great life doesn't necessarily mean traveling the world five times over, owning lots of stuff or having all your bills paid. While all those things may be fantastic, sadly, I know people who enjoy all of the above without enjoying their lives. I can't imagine living the irony of extraordinary external prosperity coupled with emotional dissatisfaction; I know many of them who in spite of their fortunes are miserable and insecure. They can have the world at their fingertips yet be filled with angst or a gnawing feeling of unhappiness.
If the only question you can answer clearly is how you want to feel when you wake up each morning, you're already ahead of the game. Assessing and subsequently building your life on that level has incredible advantages. Understand that as a synergy specialist, I help people maximize their overall life experience by assessing their business goals and environment as well as the components of their personal lives. I believe you ought to enjoy everything you create and attract as much as possible without settling in any area of your life. Often in the pursuit, you can lose sight of why you began in the first place. It's important to maintain a focus that is aligned with your purpose -otherwise you risk crossing the finish line without getting the gold.
I encourage you to grasp a true sense of what your optimum life looks and feels like. In spite of what you are focused on today, take a moment to assess or journal about how each goal will contribute to your life. Once you identify what comprises the target you envision, the next step is making it real and living it. What does that really mean?
If you've always been able to get what you want, yet you feel dissatisfied, then you are probably missing something in your foundation. For instance, consider the differences between two very successful businessmen. One built his business after defining how he wanted his life to be; as his business grew he continued to make choices that supported the lifestyle he desired. He knew he wanted a certain amount of free time to travel and spend with family; therefore, throughout his life he made choices that supported his financial goals as well as his personal desires.
The second one only had a goal of financial success without regard to his comfort of living. He assumed that he and his family's life would automatically improve with more success, resources and influence. He had equated his comfort with increased financial gain.
After years of building their businesses, the first man enjoys a fantastic quality of life, good health, good relationships and the freedom to travel whenever he desires. He also possesses an identity that extends far beyond his role in business enabling him to enjoy every aspect of his life fully. The second man is virtually tied to his business. With exorbitant resources to travel, he has very little time to spend with his wife and children, which creates more stress and resentment from his family, in turn moving him to work more. Without a happy marriage, he doesn't enjoy the kind of support that could help him de-stress. Instead, he avoids going home to avoid additional stress. When he is home, he finds it challenging to enjoy a role within the home. They both achieved their goals, yet only one got the gold--an optimum life experience with thorough enjoyment of his success.
As I said, anyone can manifest what he or she wants. If your goals are the scenes on the stage of your life and your feelings or environment are the backdrop, give the environment behind your goals that extra bit of attention, and you'll enjoy the full experience in the most seamless way possible. After all, scenes change; the backdrop provides the beauty, comfort and strength to support and enhance all that takes place on the stage. The bottom line is you can create a life within which, you will feel fulfilled the majority of the time without escapism or outside stimuli--if you set it up that way. The alternative is typically dissatisfaction and frustration, which may eventually blossom into jealousy, resentment and anger--or even worse... numbness.
Think about it consciously--or rarely give the aspects of your life a second thought, you are still creating the life you live. The results you are getting are a direct indicator of how you are choosing to focus your thoughts and actions. They contain valuable information about your strengths, weaknesses and dominant inner feelings. They include virtual blue prints of constructive and destructive patterns you are prone to participating in.
The distinction in any one life from another has mainly to do with choice. Each one of us is gifted moment after moment with the power of choice, how we use it is up to us. Get back to the basics and explore the reasons behind your goals to ensure they are aligned with your greatest well-being and sense of fulfillment. It's your right to maximize your life experience and enjoy an optimum existence. Re-connect with your innermost desires and manifest the life you dream of today! I can help you enhance your progress with a private session. Email me at Charly_organic@yahoo.com to schedule a life-changing session today. You are worth it.